Italy has a special significance for me as it does for millions of Italians born
outside of Italy but only a generation or two removed from the old country. Going
back to Italy always brings back certain emotions and expectations. I assume
North Americans from other ethnic backgrounds must feel the same way with
regard to their respective homelands. But being Italian is a bit special. This sounds
chauvinistic, so let me explain. All ethnic identities are special and equally
important and valuable. But Italian culture has a certain reputation and aura. We
associate it with the Renaissance, Ancient Rome, Opera, and the Godfather trilogy
which unfortunately glamorizes a lifestyle that represents only one per cent of
Italian society. Be as it may, we take the good with the bad and it’s not such a bad
compromise! I guess what I’m saying is that someone with my background will
likely have different expectations than a non-Italian when visiting Italy. I first
understood this when honeymooning with my wife in Vietnam back in 2000. We
kept coming across Vietnamese-Americans. I remember conversing with one
elderly gentleman who fled Vietnam with the fall of Saigon. He eventually settled
in California where he did quite well for himself and his family. But I could see
how moved he was to be back in a country he felt forced to flee. I remember his
words: “I lost my country”. He was visiting with his kids and grandkids and I can
see he really enjoyed explaining to me his country’s version of Buddhism. This
gentleman gave me an understanding of his country that no guidebook could.
My situation is different. I wasn’t forced to flee the mother country. I
wasn’t even born there. My parents came in search of a better life. They already
had freedom. I’ve been to Italy four times. Like most tourists, I’ve done the “big
three”: Rome, Florence, and Venice. We did the same this time around but we
added new cities to make it more interesting. As discussed in the previous blog, we
spent two weeks in Croatia this past summer. Our last Croatian stop was in Rovinj,
a town in Istria with a strong Italian presence. We then went to Trieste, a fairly
large city on the Italian side of the Italian/Slovenian border.
Trieste was part of the Austro-Hungarian Empire for centuries and only
became part of the Italian Republic in 1954. This city is special because of its
intriguing architecture and urban layout. It feels more like a Central European
city than a Mediterranean one, yet one still feels it belongs in Italy. We arrived
the first week of July and there wasn’t a tourist in sight. Unbelievable! The
locals are especially interesting. They look more Austrian and Hungarian than
Mediterranean, dress with style, and carry themselves in a friendly but reserved
manner. It was interesting to watch them go for their small walks at 1.00 in the
afternoon while munching on a piece of cake for desert. No gelato here. In fact,
there were bakeries everywhere selling apple strudel and other deserts that look
more Viennese than Italian. The other culinary phenomenon that stood out was the
presence of delicatessens. Hungarian salami seemed to be everywhere, along with
Austrian style sausages and sauerkraut. I love pizza and pasta but it was refreshing
not to come across yet another pizzeria advertising its incredible Margherita Pizza
for a stunning 8 Euros! Rome comes to mind.
I did not come across any museums in Trieste that caught my interest. You
won’t find any Uffizi Gallery or Vatican Museum. But the piazzas are incredibly
beautiful and spacious and many face the sea. There are public squares everywhere
with stunning buildings. The city faces the Adriatic and the nice breeze made the
July heat comfortable. Try surviving Florence in July!
Trieste has some fascinating religious institutions. This Adriatic city was
known for its tolerance of ethnic and religious minorities, and both the Greek and
Serbian Orthodox churches are well worth a visit. Like many port cities, Trieste
was a prolific city state that thrived in both trade and tolerance. Capitalism at
its best! I asked my wife what she liked about Trieste. She mentioned much of
the above, but what really stood out for her was the lady who stopped to give us
directions. She recommended a café and even took us there to make sure we didn’t
get lost. Sorry dear Romans, but this would not have occurred in Rome!
There are several ways of visiting the lesser known parts of Italy. One way
is to visit cities not normally on the tourist route. Another interesting way is to visit
cities like Venice in a more discrete way. We only had a one night sleep over in
Venice so we made the best of it. We arrived at noon and the city was flooded with
hordes of tourists. After all, this was July. No problem. I convinced my wife that
we should visit the Jewish Quarter to get away from the noisy crowds. We weren’t
disappointed. There were no tourists in sight, and the local Jewish community was
busy preparing for a religious ceremony. Unlike the busier parts of the city, this
part of Venice was quiet and serene. You could actually here yourself think. I
spoke to a few Venetians who seemed happy to see me. Nothing was bought or
sold: just a simple conversation between locals and a curious visitor. We then
proceeded to do what most tourists do when in Venice: we got lost. I was looking
for a cheap bottle of wine and I found it in one of the side streets. The city has lost
half its population, but a few locals remain. This remote neighbourhood seemed
run down but it felt real. The grocery store local I bought my wine was a local
business catering to residents living in the neighbourhood. And I enjoyed hearing
the owner speak in his Venetian dialect. We found a medieval church in this same
neighbourhood which we explored for a few minutes. It wasn’t majestic like St.
Mark’s but we did see a few old ladies praying, minus the camera clicking tourists.
We had trouble sleeping that night. We awoke around 5.30 a.m. and were
out in the city by 6.00 a.m. There were few people out except for local workmen
preparing their gondolas and businesses for the busy day ahead. We went into a
neighbourhood café where Venetians were having their first espresso of the day.
But the best part was visiting the fish market around 7 a.m. To hear the local
vendors speak to one another in Venetian was a real delight. One could imagine
what this market must have been like centuries ago. The absence of tourists allows
the imagination to take over.
We finished out trip in Venice by going to the local beach. The boat ride
was interesting but so was the walk to the beach from the station. There was a
festive atmosphere and the beach itself is full of neighbourhood people enjoying
a peaceful day. It’s not the Caribbean but it sure felt good to be away from the
hordes of tourists in St. Mark’s Square.
In conclusion, one can’t visit Italy without visiting Rome, Venice, and
Florence. But add cities like Trieste to make it more real, and visit the side streets
in the more popular cities before gentrification and mass tourism swallows
whatever remains of Italy’s great cities.